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Are men missing the honesty gene?...
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Every guy I've dated has lied to me about something. Important stuff (like,"Oops I screwed around with my co-worker") and stupid sh-t (like,"I went to the t-tty bar with the boys"). I don't understand the upside. I feel terrible when I consider lying to the person I'm seeing. I guess I figure if I can't be honest, I'm in the wrong relationship. But somehow the guys I've been with haven't felt that way. Truthfully, I'm a bit scared to get attached to anyone. I'm too young to be jaded, so I'm hoping I just haven't been dating the right guys. But my experiences certainly beg the question..."are men just missing the honesty gene?"
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Posted by:
antichick
(female, mid-30s)
(Posted 8/17/05)
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ronc99
(8/18):
Women always try to "READ" relationships, instead of just trying to have a good time. This process ruins every conversation they may have, as they are thinking about the mans response. What did he mean by that?? A man cannot be completely honest with a woman, without the possibility of never seeing her again. The woman ask's "how was your day?" He has to be extremely careful how to answer, as a simple thing like, "I had a great day" can be turned into, HMM< "He doesn't need me I guess". Why not just go out and have a good time with someone, without trying to knit pick every word he says? You are just making it harder for yourself, because you will never find a "COMPLETELY HONEST person, male or female!
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matthewelync
(8/18):
ronc99 is correct can we say "overanalysis" boys and girls? If I am with another girl who asks "what are you thinking" b/c she cannot stand dead-air Im gonna shit. Also despite popular belief i think women lie just as much as guys do. They also cheat as much too.
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Anonymous
(8/18):
In general, I believe that men just tend to be more self-absorbed than women. (Disclaimer: I'm a 30 yr. old single man)
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maxem38
(8/21):
Women are the same way....women make men lie...and it sounds like you better work on your screening process,,,,,
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Clemantine
(8/24):
The trick is to get them to start lieing later on in life when you want to hear how pretty you still are. heh heh
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Bella
(1/29):
In my experience, men lie much more than women. In their defense, I don't want to hear how big my ass looks in my new jeans.
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