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Lingerie - Yes, as a female, I'm saying it blows.
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I have to respond to the post below about how lingerie "rocks." As a female, we spend tons of money trying to push our bodies (and, consequently fat rolls of various sizes) into something "pretty" that you guys will enjoy and doesn't make us look like we just stepped out of a fat girls Victoria's Secret ad. Problem is that you boys don't look at it for more than (at most) 15 seconds and then it's thrown off. I don't get it. I also don't get why you expect us to wear lingerie when you wear the same nasty pair of mud stained boxers everyday. If you truly are turned on by lingerie, enjoy it, comment on it and take your damn time. Marathon finish boys.
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Drawers of Lingerie...and hating it!
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Anonymous
(Posted 2/23/07)
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Anonymous
(3/1):
I think all your anger is really coming from the fact that you have to admit to yourself that you are fat. So don't be harping on us. Get your butt in gear, start exercising, eat right, and gain some self respect.
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Anonymous
(3/5):
digitaldave, you are so ridiculous. You call me judgmental and then follow it with a vicious judgmental bunch of name calling.
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Anonymous
(3/7):
It's so interesting to see you guys get all riled up.
As a matter of fact, I have a slender attractive wife who is a fanatic about keeping herself in good shape (and so am I). She is confident enough to wear whatever pleases me, and in return I do a darn good job of keeping her satisfied. So your assumptions about me are wrong.
By the way, I didn't assume anything. Read the post again. The writer mentions her weight problem twice. And her anger is obvious.
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Montresor
(5/8):
To me, my wife is very sexy. We have been married for 21 years. Both of us are a little overweight and probably to most other people neither she nor me are still considered to be hot. I love to see my wife in sexy lingerie. Over the years she has expressed the same opinion as you have. She felt that she was too overweight to look good wearing the stuff. I wouldn't let her wear it for more than a minute, so why bother?
I answered her by saying: To me, she looks hot, and when she wears things to excite me and lure me into bed, it makes me feel sexy too.
Finally, if she expresses to me what I could wear to excite her in bed, I wouldn't hesitate to wear it. It doesn't sound like your problem is lingerie or even self-image. Your problem is in the men that you have had relationships with. We aren't all self-absorbed slobs (well, maybe the anonymous guy who suggested you lose weight and then had to tell us about how he is in such great shape that his wife wears anything that "pleases him". He is such a stud that he knows that he keeps his wife satisfied. Now that's a self-image problem. His wife might be keeping in such good shape cause she wants to keep her options open. She is probably looking for the guy that will love her for herself and not because she is a trophy wife that will wear what pleases him.)
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Anonymous
(5/26):
Not true Monty. We have been married 5 years, and she has guys hitting on her constantly. If she wanted to leave, she would already be gone. I do love her for herself. And part of our love is that we go out of our way to please each other. I do what she likes, she does what I like. And we both insist on looking our best, which means having the self discipline to stay trim and not be just another fat American slob.
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Stroutsink
(12/3):
Um...not all of us have fat rolls to stuff into our lingerie. And not all lingerie is uncomfortable, either. In fact, the right lingerie outfit is comfortable, aesthetically pleasing and gives a woman confidence, partially because of the affect it has on her partner, and partially because beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If a woman wants to look good in lingerie, she'll make it happen. Furthermore, I come from California where at least 90% of the men I know are repulsed by the type of man you described above. Perhaps some exercise for you and your partner as well as a boost in confidence from a therapist is in order.
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digitaldave
(3/3):
I think you are right. Men are foolish, they should be blessed to have a woman that loves them period. Hey Anonymous, this has nothing to do with self respect, if you had any you would not be so judgmental - But I bet you are a bleeding heart mean spirited, green and ignorant liberal democrap. Show yourself true Anony ROTFLOL!!!
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digitaldave
(3/7):
Hey Phony Anony, what right do you have to imply that this woman has no sef respect. I think she is right, and you are a judge.
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Anonymous
(3/7):
Hey Anonymous, I think it's funny how you automatically assume that the author is overweight, has no confidence and is angry. I think the point she is making is that there are expectations that come with being a woman, one is that we are supposed to wear lingerie. I think she is saying that if a girl makes an effort for you, don't assume that she is going to look like Gisele, enjoy it and comment how beautiful she looks because she is probably feeling pretty vulnerable. Then again, Anon, I'm fairly certain judging from your angry reaction that you haven't had someone in lingerie in your presence for awhile...if ever.
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Anonymous
(3/12):
Hey Anonymous - 34DD, 27, 33
Bet that beats your wife.....like her father
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stu7mcc
(8/17):
I love to see my wife in sexy lingerie. Unfortunately for me she doesn't like to wear it. So i have to admire othe women wearing lingerie! My wife dosen't like it but i have got to get my kicks some how! (affordable hosting from http://www.redstatcounter.co.uk)
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Anonymous
(8/24):
first, fat or not has nothin to do with it..the shit is simply not comfortable!!- even for the 15 seconds!
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